Author: Robin Sharma
|Who Will Cry When You Die? (1999) was published by the best-selling author of The Monk, who sold his Ferrari, Robin Sharma. This wisdom book will help you lead a happy and generous life because it gives suggestions and strategies for becoming a better version of yourself. It unwraps the ultimate truth that your loved ones won’t cry on your death; they will cry by missing those moments you have contributed to their lives.|
“The tougher you are on yourself, the easier life will be on you.” -Robin S. Sharma, Who Will Cry When You Die?
The book is divided into 101 solutions to daily life problems to develop our personalities and skills. Those suggestions include seeing every day as whole life, learning from films, the importance of saying no, etc.
Here, we’ll explain some of the book’s important suggestions and key learnings.
Be the Best version of yourself
First of all, Robin advises you always, to be honest with yourself.
According to Robin, The world is a lie where we tell and listen to lies daily and every moment. Secondly, he recommends you try to be more kind. One should express his love through small acts of kindness to others.
And lastly, he suggests becoming more gentle, forgiving, and grateful. Because these small acts will help you to be kind to yourself and accept those around you. This is one of the best techniques to live a satisfying life.
“It is better by noble boldness to run the risk of being subject to half the evils we anticipate than to remain in cowardly listlessness.” – Herodotus, quoting King Xerxes before he led his armies into Greece
Develop good habits
We should not only spend our days; we should learn to live and enjoy life because life is not a trial, and gone opportunities won’t come again. So, the principle of a successful life is to be disciplined and tough to yourself live life fully. Robbin suggested some habits one should develop in daily life:
- Calm down yourself by doing something that gives you relaxation after work
- Wake up early
- Take selfies
- Always have a book
- Laughing therapy
- Family time
It takes 21 days for a person to develop a new habit. So, try sticking with your habits because it seems difficult at first, but then you will get used to it.
You can also read The Now Habit Summary to boost your motivation.
Always be positive, stop getting worried, and start enjoying
The thought that we should know everything before we start something is a total waste of time. It seems like this world is fast-paced, and we have so much to worry about, but we should stop worrying and start living for the future.
We should not think too much about our mistakes because they are a part of us. We don’t need to learn from them because we already did that. When we think about our past events, our mind starts diverting to negative thoughts and blocking the positivity in our life. So, we should try to be positive and strong and don’t think about bad experiences.
Learn to say ‘No’
Say yes too often without considering what you are saying yes to, and you may end up with too many assignments, conflicting priorities, and unhealthy stress levels. Saying ‘no’ gives you a chance to focus on what’s important and your priority. When you say yes, you are taking on additional responsibilities.
When we are asked to do everything, we are not doing everything. We tend to be people pleasers and over-extended, thanks to our society’s culture of doing more.
Learning how to say no gracefully is an art that is essential for a flourishing career.
Start your day well (Platinum 30)
Your day’s beginning should be good because it determines how you’ll be your entire day. Robin named the first 30 minutes after waking up as Platinum 30.
According to Robbin, in those 30 minutes, your thoughts are purest. If you creatively live those 30 minutes every day, your life will be changed.
The outline of Robin Sharma’s Platinum 30
- After waking up, practice the renewal activities in the personal space without getting disturbed.
- Spend 15 minutes focusing on the positive things in your life.
- Pick up a book from your shelf that can help you lead a successful life.
Get inspired and motivated
There are many great genius personalities in the world, and they all are inspired and motivated by the goal of improving their and others’ lives. Robin Sharma gives some suggestions when you feel de-motivated:
- Read a book
- Watch fascinating movie
- Listen to good music
- Go to public speaking
These activities tend to inspire you in daily life. That’ll raise your aspirations to new heights.
Focus on quality, not the quantity of sleep
All should focus on the quality of sleep, not the quantity because it doesn’t matter whether you sleep 8 hours or 9 hours long. If your sleep quality is not good, those hours of sleep will get wasted.
Robin Sharma gives some advice that how you can improve your quality of sleep.
- Don’t eat anything after 8 PM, have an early meal
- Make sure not to remind yourself of the activities of the entire day while going to sleep
- Don’t read anything and watch the news in bed
These tips will help you get better sleep.
Avoid negative thoughts (they can kill you)
Robin Sharma explains to avoid negative thoughts with a famous quote ‘ Chita burns the dead body while Chinta burns the living. ‘
Chita: Funeral pyre
Chinta: To think negative or worry
It teaches us that we should focus on fully living our lives because our negative thinking can kill us. As time passes, we are moving toward death. Negative thinking can move us towards death more likely soon. Because our body reacts negatively to negative thoughts, it can create stress in our body, which may result in many diseases, such as heart problems and hypertension.
Robin Sharma inspired many people all over the world to make positive changes in their lives.
“The best version of you is one that will surely be missed by others.”
Try reading all 101 strategies toward a happier life.
Whom I would recommend Who will cry when I die? Summary to.
Would recommend it to those who want to improve their lives to get their goals and live a delighted life.